| You have a girl friend whom you are crazy about. You day dream about being with her romantically. You are friends, you want more but she doesn’t.
You are there for her. You’re a nice guy and why can’t she see this? She always seems to find jerks that treat her miserably. You can’t understand why this is so, he is a jerk and you are a nice guy.
Then when he treats her badly, she come crying to you. And you are always there with a shoulder for her to cry on. You believe that one day she will see that you are meant to be together.
I don’t know why guys believe that being the nice guy will work. It doesn’t!!!
The thing is that she knows you like her. She knows you want to have your evil ways with her. She is a woman and women are much more intuitive than men. So even though you secretly hope she will see you for the guy that you are, she has already done so. And she is not interested.
If anything, you are there for her ego. She is a woman and she needs to feel attractive. After all, attractiveness is 90% of what is important to men when looking for a girl. You provide her ego with a confidence boost.
In some cases, she is laughing at you with her friends. Look at how she can control you.
And the reason why she does not see you as a romantic possibility is because she sees you as weak. In her mind she is testing to see what kind of guy you will be over the long term. She is testing you. And if she can easily control you, in her mind she believes that any girl can easily control you. So why would she waste her time with you.
There is too much at risk for her. Should she fall into a relationship with you, her fear is that down the track another girl can come along and easily control you as well. All that time invested gone to waste. And because she is a woman, she has less time then you. She knows as she gets older she becomes less desirable.
If you don’t believe me, go to a friends website
‘Stuck In Friends Zone’.
In this website Tiffany uncovers why men end up in friends zone.
To change this around you need to stop being her whipping boy. You need to become more exciting to her. You need to build her curiosity about you. Click here to find to find out
the 7 Steps to turn your girl friend into your lover.
Just imagine what it would be like to be dating her. As a man it is your obligation to do whatever it takes, within reason, to do so. The bottom line is, if either of you have romantic feeling for each other the friendship will never last. If the feelings are mutual, then the longer you take to find this out the less likely you are to hook up. |
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